SPEAKER_01 0:30

I'm Carly Gilbert and I'm a local real estate agent with Long and Foster. And primarily I serve first-time home buyers, sellers, renters, and referrals. So I'm just your local expert helped to here to help and serve the county.

SPEAKER_00 0:46

So excited about it. Awesome. So take me back to how you got started in all of this. Tell me how you got to where you are today.

SPEAKER_01 0:55

Okay. So long story, but I'll give clip notes if I can. So back I had been a manager

Meet Carly, Local Realtor

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for a pet sitting company like for over 10 years. And I had done that for a long time. I have a huge love for animals. It's my passion. I love all animals. And so I got into that. And I really thought that would take me far. And at some point I would own my own pet sitting company. But inevitably, we kind of hit towards like COVID time. And so unfortunately,

From Pet Care To Pivot

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that business had to close. But I did get to meet some wonderful clients through that that are very close friends now. And so just doing that and meeting everybody that I met and just the relationships I have now, that's really I'm a social butterfly. So like for me, it's like it feeds me to just the connection with people. So that is where I thought I would take off and just have my path. I never thought I would be where I am now. But like I said, COVID did hit. And so then it sort of forced me into a remote setting with doing email marketing. And so I started doing that. And although I learned a lot and I did enjoy it, I still met some wonderful people, even if it was behind a screen, it wasn't feeding a part of me that I just knew I needed. And it was that people connection and adding value to people's lives. So for me, I just knew there had to be a change because it was just sort of like something's missing. So I had a bunch of family and friends just say, Carly, like you should get into real estate. Like you'd be great at it. And so I just thought, oh no, I didn't really believe in myself at first. Like, I don't know, you know, I can see myself, but maybe I don't know. And then just at some point last year, I've got a now five-year-old daughter. She just turned five a couple days ago, which is crazy. Yeah, she's grown up really fast. I just started seeing, like, I know that I'm a mom. I always say I'm a mom first, and then I'm a realtor. And I'm very big on family. And so taking care of my family is number one priority. So I just knew last year I was just sitting there. I'm like looking at my daughter. I'm like, you know, I

Choosing Real Estate For Family Balance

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think I'm just gonna, I'm just gonna jump into real estate. I'm gonna see where it takes me. And I would, I knew it would have, like a part of me knew it would have that balance and flexibility and support I needed to be able to focus on my family with being an agent. So I just dove in and got my license. And from there, it's just taken off. And I absolutely love it. It's a it's something I never saw myself doing, but I'm so glad I jumped into doing it. Um, and so now my daughter, she goes to meetings with me, she'll go to showings with me. Yeah, she calls herself a little mini agent. Yeah. So it's kind of like it's I'm finding that amazing balance with my family, my family life. And that, you know, allows me to be able to serve clients knowing that I've got that support flexibility, and I'm I'm a family person. So it just it's been great. Absolutely. What a journey. It's crazy. It's crazy. Never thought I'd be here, but I'm so glad I am.

SPEAKER_00 4:04

It's really interesting, all the parts and pieces of our just background and story and how they move us to where we are today. And and they put you in a station where in a situation where you're like, this is meant to be.

SPEAKER_01 4:16

Yeah, exactly. Exactly. It is, it's meant to be, and that's I think that's a great point, is I got to that place. Like maybe like probably two, three months into just getting my license in general. I just was like, I'm where I'm supposed to be and didn't know I was supposed to be here. And I'm so glad I took that that leap to do it. And I've already met so many wonderful people just being in this business and just the team I'm on is amazing. So it's been, it's been absolutely incredible. Beautiful. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 4:45

And so you often describe your goal as making the real estate process feel clear, manageable, and as stress-free as possible. Yes. What does that look like in practice when you're working with clients?

SPEAKER_01 4:57

So I always like to tell my clients, I envision myself as being, say, a first-time home buyer, right? And I'm on my journey with my family to get my first home as well. So I know how the drive you have and that passion and that I

Making Homebuying Feel Clear And Calm

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wouldn't call it pressure, but you know the feeling when you're trying to work for something impactful, like a home that's holding your family. It's where everything happens, memories are made. Um, I know how badly I want it. And so when I work with my clients, I want them to know that I understand it can at times it could feel stressful or hard to manage and a lot of pressure. Cause I mean, you know, you're going to buy a house, like that's a really big purchase and a big decision. So I tell my clients, look, I understand because I know how badly I want it. And I know it takes a lot to get to that point to get your first home. My job is to make sure they have as less, like as the least amount of stress possible. And it's just a smooth process. And I do believe that especially being with Long and Foster, being backed by their resources and the team is just incredible. And so I just know for a fact that I can make sure my clients are achieving their goals and they're they have a clear path and we set a plan and we go for it. And I tell them, like, you know, my job is to take your stress away. So yeah.

SPEAKER_00 6:23

Wonderful. Yeah. You guys are in it together and you're all in it together. You're there to walk them through the whole process beginning to end. Yeah, it's great. I love it. It's amazing. And, you know, as a mom and someone who values health and balance, how do those parts of your life influence the way you connect with clients and manage that pace of the job?

SPEAKER_01 6:44

So I am a huge believer in taking care of yourself first. Because if you're not taking care of yourself, you can't take care of your family. You take care can't take care of your job. Um, and so I'm a huge health enthusiast. I believe that, you know, just moving, eating the right things,

Health, Boundaries, And Better Service

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and just making sure, just being cognizant, even of your mental health as well. Taking care of yourself take care of taking care of yourself, takes care of others. So I believe that that very strongly plays into being a real estate agent because, you know, if I'm not tape able-bodied, you know, I'm not able to take care of my clients and make sure that they're achieving their goals. So achieving mine helps me achieve theirs.

SPEAKER_00 7:28

Absolutely. You have to take care of yourself to be able to take care of others. Yeah. Yeah. Plain and simple. Very important. And you often describe yourself as someone who thrives on connection, communication, and urgency. How do those qualities show up when you're guiding clients through a transaction?

SPEAKER_01 7:45

Yes. Uh, I think that especially I call them tran, we call it transactions, right? Because they are transactions, but I call them like big life decisions. And it's a moment that's going to change, you know, it's gonna it's gonna direct your future, right? So I think that managing, managing the balance of, like I was saying, with my health and my life and my mental um health and everything and physical health, that allows me to balance everything better, stay organized, stress-free, clear-minded. Um, and I believe that that just is felt

Trust, Communication, And Responsiveness

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by my clients just by me living my own life that way. At least I hope it does. I've been told it does. So I guess that's good. So yeah, I think that's definitely important. Um, and I think it's been a really uh important aspect of my business.

SPEAKER_00 8:36

Wonderful. Yeah. And kind of going off of that, your clients have praised your commitment, trustworthiness, and responsiveness throughout the entire process. What do you think those traits, why do you think those traits are so essential in this industry?

SPEAKER_01 8:50

So that's a great question. So I think trust is a big one, right? So when you're making a huge purchase like this or selling a home, whatever it might be, decision, you want to be able to trust who is guiding that, who's guiding you through that process because there's a lot that goes into it. And it can be stressful. And you want to be able to know that that person that is holding it, you know, holding it together for you and guiding you through the whole process, you're able to trust. And so I know that I want to, it's the know you, like you, and trust you. And I hope that my clients can be able to do that with me. And like I said, I'm a people person, so I I just love to help in general. Naturally, I thrive on growing and helping people, and something like purchasing a home is I could add so much value to someone's life that way, and that's very important to me. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 9:42

And just to be a part of like such a big milestone, huge. It's huge.

SPEAKER_01 9:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 9:48

Wonderful.

SPEAKER_01 9:48

And I'm sorry, you did touch on the communication thing. I will say too, I know that definitely the lack of communication sometimes can be it can feel overwhelming because you kind of feel like you're left in the mix and you don't really know, like, okay, what's the next steps? And because I've been in that same position too. And so with my clients, I've always been like straightforward. I've been very realistic with them, clear, and very responsive. I try to be very responsive in a quick manner because I know I know that there can be a lot of anxiety, right, in this process. So I do my best to really just be forthcoming and you know, headstrong and on it for them all the time.

SPEAKER_00 10:29

Wonderful. You show up and you strive and you do your homework. Yeah, I do my best. I do my best. Okay. Awesome. And you know, affordability is a major concern for buyers and sellers right now. How do you help clients navigate those conversations in a way that feels honest, grounded, and empowering?

SPEAKER_01 10:48

It's great. That's a great question. So that is something I get asked. That's actually every client I've had has had that concern. They've brought that up of affordability. And not just in real estate, but in everything we do, right? Like we have anxiety over that. It's it's the main concern we have. Like, can we afford this? Can we do this? Whether that be buying a house, selling a house, or making any big purchase or doing

Affordability Fears And Practical Plans

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anything, it's it can be anxiety-inducing. And so I always tell my clients, look, my job is to make sure that the decisions that you make and that I help you make and help guide you through is something that you know, like we make sure that there is no stress or anxiety or questioning over the affordability. Like we will find something for you, like it will happen and you will be able to afford it. We will have a budget, we'll have a plan. And so I always like to sit down with them first, go over everything and make sure that we, you know, cross our T's, dot our I's right. Um obviously, I think talking to lenders beforehand is great. And I'm in touch with some really great lenders, so that's helpful just to kind of ease their anxiety a little bit there so they can kind of help plan better. And there is no, there is, I want to alleviate that concern completely of affordability and know that they are comfortable and they can trust me that they will find something they can't they can't afford.

SPEAKER_00 12:06

So that's really amazing how you're able to provide a personalized experience. Yes. So no matter where they're at, you'll meet them there.

SPEAKER_01 12:13

Yes, I always meet that. That's a great way to say it is I meet my clients where they are. And like you said, I am very personable. I'm a people person. My family says I'm the people pleaser of the town. And so that's just naturally who I am. So yeah, I do meet my clients where they are. I really like that you said that because that's definitely me. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 12:32

And you know, as a Virginia native, how does your local knowledge help clients feel more comfortable and informed when making these big decisions?

SPEAKER_01 12:40

So I'm a big believer in being local to your community and being involved. So especially, you know, if you're gonna have somebody guiding you through a process like this, you go you want someone that knows the area, right? Like inside and out. And I have lived, I've lived in Virginia my whole life, but specifically Loudoun County, I've lived here for a little bit over 15 years. So I just I know the ins

Local Knowledge That Builds Confidence

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and outs of the area. I love it. And so I believe because I have that, because I have that knowledge of the area, I the clients that I do have, I'm able to really help, like, hey, you know, here's you want to be close to a school, you know, here's a great location for a home that's close to a really great school, or just parks if they have kids. I know, especially as a mom, I know all the things for the kiddos in the area and the parks and the fun indoor play parks and just all the fun activities to do. And especially becoming a mom, I think that helps is you just you really get to know all that stuff when you have kids. So it's helpful. And I I really believe that helps my clients feel like they can make a confident decision because they know, like, okay, she's been here a while, so she knows like this area. So I think that's very important. Yeah. Absolutely. And like you said, just knowing all the good spots, the go-to spots right, exactly is awesome, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 13:55

Especially for families.

SPEAKER_01 13:56

It's huge for families. Yeah, and Loudon County is so wonderful with that. Like the family life is so thriving here, it's so great. And I feel like you just there's always something to do, there's always an event to go to. There's always like just the community is amazing. So I love it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 14:11

Wonderful. And as you mentioned earlier, you're backed by Long and Foster's extensive resources in team-driven culture. How does having that kind of support elevate the experience you're able to provide to your clients?

SPEAKER_01 14:25

Yeah, so another great question. So I long and foster since joining them, I've met, not only have I met some wonderful people, some great friends, amazing colleagues, I know that the resources that they do provide and the training, the extensive training they provide, and just the overall support and the mentoring, I mean, it's changed me as a person. So I can only imagine with that, I know that with my

Power Of Team And Mentorship

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clients, they definitely have that more of an opportunity because of that, because we have the resources, we have the support. So through the entire buying and selling process, I'm backed by an amazing team. So I just know that there won't be any missing pieces throughout the process because long and foster provides that. So they're awesome. Teamwork makes the dream work. Teamwork makes the dream work. That's right. I love it. Yep, that's right. That's a great motto. I, yeah, definitely with long and foster for sure.

SPEAKER_00 15:16

There's a lot of truth in it. Yep. And, you know, real estate can often feel competitive, but you've highlighted how collaborative the culture is within your office. Why is that team-oriented environment so important to you?

SPEAKER_01 15:30

Another good question. So I, especially working as in my manager roles back, like I mentioned with the pet setting companies, just having an organized team and like a collaborative team that works together instead of against each other is huge in a business. That's what's going to make your business thrive and grow, is when you're all working together and you're all helping each other achieve goals. And I've seen that, like I said, in my own company

Collaboration Over Competition

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that I was running. Um, and I had made it my best effort to put a team together that was a team and they were supporting each other and helping each other fill in the gaps where it was needed, or taking phone calls if they had questions with another team. So that's definitely priority is to have that, but it's definitely a game changer for me because I, again, I'm a people person, I thrive off that. So the team aspect of it, especially with Long and Foster, has been amazing for me. And like I said, I've met so many wonderful people. So I'm I'm excited for what's more to come with that too.

SPEAKER_00 16:30

Absolutely. You can't have a better team than that.

SPEAKER_01 16:32

No, you can't. No. No.

SPEAKER_00 16:34

You know, real estate is an industry where relationships matter long after closing day. How do you stay connected with clients once the transaction is complete? It's a good rush too.

SPEAKER_01 16:45

So to give example to that, I guess is the best way to put it is like I said at the beginning, I met some wonderful people through my previous business. Um, and even doing my email marketing, I still met one or few people that I still talk to. But I have more than I could count on my hands, clients from my previous business that we talk weekly and we are close. I babysit their kids, like, yeah, and

Relationships After Closing

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they've they have pets that I still go and visit because they are so close to my heart and their pets are so close to my heart. And so I just I met some wonderful people through that. And so I know being in this business, that's feeding me still, because I love that, that I get to build those relationships off of, you know, it's of course a transaction, but to me it's not. To me, it's more than a transaction. Like you're helping someone make such a life-changing decision, and so you really do get connected and you keep that relationship. And so I make it a priority to keep in touch with them. And they're they might get those drop bys of 12 baked cookies. And I mean, hopefully they're good, but like you're gonna see my face. I'm sorry, but I'm I'm there, I might be there for you for life. Who knows? But I I just like to be helpful and connect with people and you know, if they're open to it, then the relationship after is of course just a long journey.

SPEAKER_00 18:04

So I love it. I love it. And I love how they can just reach out to you at any time. It's anytime if they have questions or need help, or like you said, if they just want to hang out.

SPEAKER_01 18:13

Yeah, meet up for coffee. We've done that. Like I just did that with a past client. We met up for coffee, we just caught up, and it was amazing to see like how far they've come after they, you know, got their place and just where they are with their family. And so it it's awesome. So I love it.

SPEAKER_00 18:27

You really get to see it come full circle. Yes, yeah, exactly. Exactly. And as you continue growing in your career, what kind of experience do you hope every client walks away with after working with you?

SPEAKER_01 18:40

Okay, that one makes me think. So, an experience to walk away with from working with me, I would hope, is trust that they were able to trust me through the process. And I take trust, I hold that to high regard because that goes with everything, right? In relationships in life, just trusting somebody is everything. So I would hope that,

The Experience Carly Wants You To Have

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you know, walking away after working with me, they can confidently say, like, I can really trust her. And not only did I trust her in the transaction, but also I can trust her moving forward if I need help in the future and to stay connected or to meet any need I might have that I can trust to use her again, or like I said, just meet up for coffee, right? And then I'll and then I will show up. You'll trust I'll be there, right? So trust, definitely trust.

SPEAKER_00 19:26

Trust, reliability, those are such key in a field like this. Yeah, yes. And as we wrap up, is there anything you'd like to add that I haven't touched on today?

SPEAKER_01 19:37

I don't think so. I mean, this has been awesome. I loved talking with you and I appreciate it so much. Um, I will say I'm very excited to just keep growing and just see where this takes me and see how my family grows along with it. Like I said, family first for me. So as I grow with my family, I hope to see my business grow and thrive with it. Um, again, meeting more new wonderful people and just yeah, take off and be a helpful resource here in Loudin. That's my goal. Absolutely.

SPEAKER_00 20:03

Thank you so much, Carly, for joining me on the podcast and sharing your knowledge and

Closing Thoughts And Gratitude

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story with us. Absolutely. I wish you the best of luck and all that comes your way in the future.

SPEAKER_01 20:12

Thank you so much.

SPEAKER_00 20:13

Thank you for uh having me on here. Appreciate it.